Unfortunately, we can not force parents to use our service in a constructive, positive manner or to abide by a court order. We recommend that you attempt to address any specific concerns about messages that your co-parent is sending using TalkingParents; this provides documentation of your attempts to be cooperative and civilly resolve issues.
However, if you think your co-parent may be acting in violation of a court order, or you would like to find out what support may be available through the legal system, we recommend you contact an attorney, or the court itself.