There is no right or wrong way to use TalkingParents. We encourage parents, lawyers, and courts to be creative and use TalkingParents however they like to fit the circumstances of each case or relationship best. If members are not court-ordered or have another agreement, parents can take as little or as much time as they want between viewing and posting messages.
We recommend that you address this matter with your co-parent through our service to document your position on the issue. If you can’t come to an agreement, and you would like to seek a court order defining a response time from each parent for new messages, we recommend you consult with an attorney or the court itself.